Vow Renewal FAQ's 

When you are planning your wedding, there are so many things to consider and I strongly advise you to think about what you want and make a list of what is included in your dream ceremony.

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This will support you in finding the person who aligns with your vision and will create a memorable day for you to look back and remember with tears of joy and happiness, rather than regrets and disappointment.

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The Officiant  (Celebrant / Civil Celebrant / Registrar)

 

Is there a choice of an officiant, someone who gets who you are and sees your vision? 

Yes

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Can we meet the officiant before the ceremony?     

Yes, with a celebrant you will meet at least twice with regular email/ telephone contact too.

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Are there regular meetings and email contact with the officiant to discuss options or to amend and confirm details? 

Yes, an initial consultation, a script review plus regular Zoom and email contact. 

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Does the officiant have a set time limit for the ceremony?

Flexible - I only take 1 booking per day

 

Is there any flexibility to pause the ceremony if a child or adult needs special attention?

Yes – flexible time, this is your day   

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Is there any support from the officiant in writing your own meaningful and heartfelt vows?

Yes, you can write your own with guidance from a celebrant, if needed. 

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Can the officiant carry out a Vow Renewal Ceremony

Yes – it will be unique and personalised

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Would the officiant carry out a Wedding on the Isle of Man, if we already have a UK Marriage Licence?

Yes

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Your Wedding / Vow Renewal Ceremony

 

Is there a set format for the ceremony to be adhered to

No, you can be as flexible as you like and I can guide you through this

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Do you have the option to change the format or running order of the ceremony to suit you?

Yes, we can mix it up and include readings, music, poems, and elements, such as including your family in a Unity Sand Ceremony

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Can you personalise the ceremony to reflect your lifestyle, uniqueness, and passions? 

Absolutely, this is your day and should reflect you, not a copy-and-paste day that is forgettable 

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Can you personalise your vows and wording?

Yes, you can include funny little promises to heartfelt and solemn moments. 

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Are religious or spiritual references allowed?

Yes, I am happy to include them, but not all officiant will. 

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Will the officiant curate a ceremony that talks about who we are, our journey together, and our future hopes and dreams?

Yes, you will get the chance to review the script well in advance of the day and make amendments if needed 

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Can the couple keep back a personal message that they will share on the big day?

Yes, it can add a little bit of excitement and spice to the proceedings 

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Is there a rehearsal with the bridal party

Yes /optional

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Can you include your family and friends in any part of the ceremony?

Yes, as part of an element, cultural or religious traditions

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Are pets allowed and included in your ceremony such as my dog being the ring bearer?

Yes/ optional

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Can you include food & and soft/ alcoholic drinks as part of your ceremony

Yes /optional. Some have sealed their vows with a unique gin cocktail created for them 

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Are you or your family allowed to perform any religious, or cultural traditions within the ceremony?

Yes, we will discuss your requirements and weave them into your ceremony with all due respect. 

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Are mobile phones and pagers allowed in the ceremony?

At the couple’s / family's discretion

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Where can you hold your wedding ceremony?

Anywhere included the restricted places at government-licensed venues 

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Can the wedding ceremony be held anywhere indoors or outdoors?

Yes, with the venue/landowner's permission 

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Are the Ceremony guest numbers limited?

The size of the venue will determine the numbers allowed 

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Can you visit the ceremony venue with the officiant to discuss ideas and possibilities?

Yes, meeting there at least once before your ceremony is advisable.

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Can the Ceremony wording, decoration, and dress code be themed from our favourite colours, films, hobbies, and passions?

Yes

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Would the officiant dress to suit the theme

Yes/ optional

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Is music allowed for the bridal procession, if so are there any restrictions? 

Yes music is allowed and you can choose whatever tune you like played live or recorded 

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Is live music allowed in the ceremony room/ area?

Yes if the venue allows.

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Is a Videographer allowed in the ceremony

Yes, and they can move to get the perfect images

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Can Confetti be thrown at the ceremony

Yes – venue restrictions may apply

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Remember always to check the details of what is advertised in any package.

 

For example -  

• Which actual location within a venue is the officiant allowed to act?

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• Can you include your family in the elements (eg a hand-tying) in the ceremony  

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• Can you include your love story, personalise your vows, or change the format of your wedding ceremony to suit you?

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• Can you have a specific theme and decorations in your ceremony?

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• Will you know and be supported by the officiant before your ceremony?

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• Is the officiant flexible if you have to move the start time on the day, or pause mid-ceremony?

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For answers to any other questions you may have please email me. 

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Please note, that these answers are based on Andi Barker Celebrant Services, for a Ceremony held in the Isle of Man and may vary to other Wedding Celebrants depending on their own beliefs, faiths, and local customs. 

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